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Parenting tips can take you to a new level of parenting. However, sometimes it can be confusing and frustrating to translate the tips and apply them to your own family, children and situation.

You may be afraid of being labeled a "bad parent" but you don't know what exactly constitutes a "good parent."

Well, a good parent is the parent that is good for your children and your family. That may be different from what a good parent is for your friend's family and children so it is important to remember that. With parenting, it is important to remember that one size does not fit all.

So, how do you handle the expert's advice to parents and apply them to your family and your life? These 5 tips will help you sort it all out.

1. Listen to or read what the experts and other parents suggest. Check out parenting groups, parenting blogs, books and articles on parenting to see what they have to say. You can find plenty of parenting advice that will help you become a better parent.
2. Decide if the tips make sense to you. Consider the parenting tips that you find and decide if conforms with your philosophy of life. Remember sometimes it may take a while for changes to occur in a family. This can create a problem if you are not completely sure that what you are doing is right. Doubt can make it difficult to stick with your plan until you see the positive results that you desire. Because of this, you should make sure that the advice you take fits your life beliefs before you plunge in.

   On the other hand, it is dangerous to brush off good advice and discredit it right off the bat. Remember that if you are looking for parenting advice, then it is likely that you are in a rut and nothing looks viable. You may be feeling hopeless so no advice seems doable.

   Before you discount any new idea, honestly consider them first. When your earnestly consider the advice, it may be that what at first appeared useless can actually turn your family around.

3. Decide if it is a "fit." You can't always implement an idea even if it theoretically makes sense to you. You have to disregard a suggestion to take your family on a world cruise if your bank statement doesn't allow. A more practical example is that if you are uncomfortable with certain types of discipline, then all the expert advice in the world won't make it right for your family. Just pass on that and keep looking until you find something that is more comfortable for you.
4. DO IT! This might sound obvious but, unfortunately, many parents spend hours and hours, night after night, month after month surfing the web or reading articles about parenting. They read until their head bursts with inspiration, anecdotes, and learning the steps to become a better parent but, unfortunately, they never do anything with all that they learnt so obviously they never see results. Please don't fall into this trap.
5. Monitor the results. As you employ the new parenting advice that you have learned, note any changes that may occur. If things remain the same, don't be afraid to look for a better solution.

   This is another area, though, where you need to tread with care. Changes won't occur over night so don't expect immediate results. In reality, it is very likely that your problem will become worse before it gets better. This is not a result of bad parenting, just a result of change working within your family before some of your new parenting tips take hold.

6. If at first you don't succeed…If you have been trying your new parenting advice for some period of time and you do not notice a change, then you may need to try something else. Don't be afraid to say "this isn't working" and move on to something else. This is not failure, not by a long shot. In fact, exhibiting flexibility is the mark of an exceptional parent. Maybe this expert's advice is just not the best advice for your family and children. Drop it, move on and find something that works for your family.

No one is born a great parent new parenting topics come up every day. Don't be embarrassed to ask for parenting tips from others.

Who knows? You might go from a being a mediocre parent to becoming an exceptional parent and start to give your parenting tips to others!

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